If you are trying to get pregnant and the natural way is not working for you; you are surely going to try alternate fertility treatments to have a baby. This is not always successful in the first attempt. It may take long and sometimes years before you actually get pregnant.
While you are going through your fertility treatments you are surely going to be stressed out and sometimes you will find yourself getting frustrated when nothing seems to be happening. What you need to do before the start of any treatment is to discuss with your spouse which one is best suited for you and how long you are willing to try it before you decide on any other option. Remember to try for at least a year before you decide on adoption or not having children at all.
While you are going through your fertility treatments a good idea is to take breaks from it every few months. For couples who are undergoing fertility treatments there is a lot of pressure on their marriage as well as you tend to get depressed every time you find out that you are not pregnant. Make sure to have sex whether it is your fertile period or not. Forget about the calculations once in a while.
You will find that you get easily upset when you hear others around you getting pregnant especially your friends and relatives and may actually not be happy for them. These are all normal feelings that you will need to cope with. You may also find yourself getting anxious and irritable as well as frustrated all through your fertility treatments. You are going to experience a whole set of negative emotions till you actually get pregnant or come to terms with the fact that you may never get pregnant.
Going through all these emotions is a very stressful time for the couple. What you can try and do is some relaxation exercise like yoga or meditation that will keep you calm. A good thing would be to join a support group where you will find that you are not alone.